Maya's Teachings
&
Excerpts from the book The Power of Illusion
Contents
A Touch of Faith
Does Corporate America Discriminate?
Easy Ways Of Making A Difference
The Faces of Fear Happiness is
Embracing Differences in Others
Values and Virtues From Narcissism To Empathy
An Invitation To Stop Worshiping Your Spiritual Teacher
Open Hearted Communication - Allowing All To Be Who They Are, Including Self
How Do I Love Unconditionally? A Contemplation...My Miracle : To Know God Heard Me At My Time Of Need
Happy Health; Happy Wealth; Happy Love
Surrendering My Will To God Having Hope & Faith When We Need It Most
How Do I Release My Attachment To Dysfunction? A spiritual student ponders...
Does God Hear Me? Self Creation
Fierce Grace - A Call To Release Limited Beliefs Within Us
Equality
Self Love - Part I Self Love - Part II
You Are Your Own Teacher Loving My Ego
Love - The Path of True Happiness 7 Steps To Releasing Anger
The Healing Risk The False Dependence
3 Steps to Release Fears Is War The Right Answer?
Truth, Love and God The Process of Awakening - II
Good Boundaries 3 Steps To Happiness
True Power Judgments
Faith in Self & Faith in God
Communication
The Power of Illusion What causes Greed?
The Process of Awakening Forgive and Let Go
Truth The Way to Live When You Don’t Know How
Living Through Difficult Times Creation & Destruction
Moving On Faith
Showing Up To Life Wake Up!
Faith – such a magical 5 letter word, one that can keep you in drama or lift you to soar higher.
We all are a work in progress in discovering Faith in God. I had to fully believe God does not exist in order to find my own experience – a constant work in progress. I had to first drop all my preconceived notions about God that I learned from parents and society, before I could discover what that is in me. I had to stand in the unknown until a whisper of the grandness touched me.
The touch of faith is an unmistakable energy, a swift answer to a great suffering and a self validating knowing within.
It is the miracles in my life
I seem to have it for periods and then I lose it.
Feeling cut off
Grabbing on to people and things in the futile attempt to build my self confidence.
Just another distraction from what is truth…
My arrogance ebbs, leaving the crystal clarity I can’t control people or situations out of fear. I can only manifest powerful change from a place of great surrender – I know nothing.
My soul helps me to not forget the journey I came here to take
My virtues improve with each mistake I own, each injustice I stand up to lovingly, with each fear I release.
The journey of discovering who we are is not to be covered under some pretty veils
It is heart breaking, until we let go of our fears to make room for greater love.
It is losing everything we think we need, until we return all our energy back to the single pointed focus – what are we running away from?
May the journey be peaceful, gentle and loving.
Does Corporate America Discriminate?
I love America and the foundation based on equality. I believe this foundation need to extend to our personal lives and professional lives. Questions such as – ‘Do we treat others as our equal, instead of being “better than” or “less than”’- are very important for our own evolution to higher levels.
In my own contemplation of equality I observed Corporate America has a few areas where improvement is needed:
· There is a difference in a way a manager speaks to his subordinate Vs how he speaks to his peers/superiors.
· There is a difference in how people treat Contract employees Vs Full Time Employees
· There is a difference in how IT and Business groups treat each other, often a lack of harmony is observed.
· There is a difference in how a man treats a woman in a leadership role Vs another man in the same role
After years of witnessing it, being part of it and then gaining awareness to step out of it, I found the root cause of this discrimination:
FEAR
· Low self esteem - hence depending on a job title to feel worthy.
· Feeling the need to put people down to prove ones superiority.
· Having the belief that being a high performer means job security or is a prerequisite to being loved and appreciated.
· Allowing another to walk all over one to affirm a limiting belief set in early childhood.
Pushing another never works. We need to own the responsibility of identifying where the communication is broken and aim to resolve it without the blame game, and without the need to be right.
Our sense of self cannot come from anything outside of us. Our self worth automatically comes from a solid sense of virtues built through dedicated self work of seeing and releasing fears.
In my quest to emotional wellness, I had to let go of acting from the place of ‘looking good’, and instead start acting from a place of ‘what is the right thing to do?’.
The key question to ask is ‘What is the truth I am resisting to see?’.
Keep asking this question through the day and before going to bed. Asking the questions allows the unconscious mind (right brain) to reveal the hidden fears to the conscious mind (left brain). Once the fear is revealed, we can have a dialogue with our unconscious mind (through our non dominant hand) on how unproductive limiting thoughts are and gently guide it to let go of the fear.
For more information on communication with the unconscious mind, contact me at explore@mayavidhya.com
I believe Harmony and Team Work is the result of emotional wellness within us.
Easy Ways of Making a Difference to The Planet
I have made a list of ways we can help the planet that is easy and effortless.
Pick one a day and implement. Watch the increase in your happiness meter!
1. Bless the planet and creation when you wake up. Pray for the well being of all.
2. Do not participate in any human drama or gossip today.
3. When you see a homeless person on the street, ask the angelic kingdom to surround them. Give money if you can.
4. Stop your silent criticism of weather, co-workers, family and traffic by mentally saying CANCEL CANCEL CANCEL.
5. Give someone the benefit of doubt.
6. When you catch yourself wanting to be right, stop and be flexible.
7. Eat more Organic veggies today
8. Help 1 person in a way that is easy and effortless
9. Think of a fear and pray for its release. You can also say “God take this fear (name it) back to the light as I am ready to stop manifesting it in my life. Thank you God for this. So be it.”
10. Make eye contact with people you avoid, and SMILE.
11. Ask the janitor in your office how their day was, and stop to listen.
12. During discussions, listen fully without planning your response.
13. When faced with a problem, stop the knee jerk reaction to blame, instead ask the question “What is the lesson for me here?”.
14. Let go of the need for approval, manipulation and pushiness.
15. Be sincere in your praise. Don’t say anything you don’t believe to be true.
16. Be truthful and admit your mistake at work and at home.
17. When you desire to inflate yourself, stop and appreciate the weather, the president, or the person in front of you.
18. When you believe you have the answer on how another should act, stop and own your arrogance. Admit to yourself you know nothing that is in another person’s reality.
19. Avoid coffee, cigarette and alcohol today.
20. Write a letter to your senator, congressman or President to request a change to improve the planet.
21. Before going to bed, say 3 things you are grateful for.
Fear is what pushes people out of the way to be the rock star of the moment
Fear is the silent energy that results in addictions and depression
Fear prevents us from knowing our inner strength
Fear puts the lid on creativity.
Fear loves to be the victim
Fear is the aggressor who thinks the world is a battle field.
Fear is the way we avoid accepting the truth of the moment
Fear is what drives a relationship apart in the quest to be right
Fear is the culprit when a parent forgets to take the responsibility of parenting
Fear is when corporate politics cloud productivity and compassion ceases
Why do we let the fear fester?
The ego self would have its walls crumble to admit the degree of fear within
Maybe the ego will realize how wrong it has been all the while
and know the pedestal it sits on is a protective mechanism
When the personality discovers the fears, it may run, or weave a sophisticated lie
To cover the fear
Either way, the truth is
Fear prevents us from knowing the grandest experience of all – God
I believe human beings will be far happier if they accepted the truth – we are a work in progress at everything!
I was a perfectionist, until I realized I lacked self-love. In every area of my life I am working on releasing some belief that is limiting to embrace more unlimitedness.
I later contemplated on how society will be if we allowed everyone to be a work in progress?
1. The leader of the country will be more willing to be a student everyday on the job. Suggestions for improvements will be received without defense.
2. The CEO can make decisions from a place of empathy and compassion alongside brilliant direction.
3. The mother will be a positive influence on her children when she admits her mistakes.
4. The partners will be able to forgive themselves for not meeting a commitment.
5. There will be more people helping the poor and needy, as they stop the judgments.
6. War will reduce as people have tolerance towards difference in points of view.
7. There will be more emotional intimacy and connection between humans as they can admit their mistake without shame or guilt. They stop reacting negatively to people and blame stops.
Here are some points for contemplation:
· Our parents are a work in progress. They may not be the ones who can show us what unconditional love is.
· Our partners are a work in progress. They are students of emotional wellbeing too.
· Our leaders are a work in progress. They are mastering virtues like the rest of us.
We need to make the shift within us, before the world gets it. We are all learning to love more, live more, and embrace truth more.
When we give another a break, we give our self a break.
When we give our self a break, we stop proving anything to the world.
We can rest, and improvise from a place of OKness.
We are happy.
Embracing Differences in Others
Differences are not fun when we are insecure
and trying to build our self-love by having another agree with our views in
order to feel good within.
Differences lead to conflicts at work where blaming the other for having a
different view point is sometimes the norm.
Differences in relationship result in breakup.
Differences between countries result in war.
Why do we have differences amongst us?
All humans are students on the path of life, expanding their ability to hold
grace under pressure, expanding their ability to love without conditions,
expanding their wisdom though life experiences without judgments.
Our idea of what is ‘our truth’ changes with time and experience. We have
different point of view at different stages in our life.
Our viewpoint on anything may be a result of:
1. Our denial of the inner feelings the real truth may bring up
2. Our need to feel superior by our adherence to a religious/political view
point
3. Our inability to break free from the view point of our parents, society or
authority figures
4. Our wisdom gained from experiences as of that point in our life
When there are so many dependencies on ones opinion on anything in life, how
can we expect the rest of the world to have our chain of thought?
Having a different view point is our birth right. We all need the freedom to
believe what is right for us, until we decide to make a change.
That right comes with being in a free country and being an adult.
So, is it not an act of ignorance to not allow another to have a difference in
the way thy think, act, dress, eat, pray and live their life?
When faced with difference, we can continue to speak our truth without
demanding the other to accept to our point of view.
Peace within us is a result of accepting those negative aspects within
ourselves we have a difference of opinion with what we project to the world. We
cannot change what we don't accept within us.
Peace in our outside reality is allowing difference in everyone we interact
with. We may not desire another person’s way of being, however we can allow
another person to experience the choices they have until they decide to change
it on their own.
From Narcissism to Empathy
Here are a few definitions for Narcissism:
· A
doctrine that individual self-interest is the actual motive of all conscious
action,
· Excessive
concern for oneself , exaggerated feelings of self-importance,
· Belief
ones thoughts/actions is superior,
· Deep
insecurity resulting in an addictive need for being appreciated and thought of
as special.
· A
consistent demand to be given a higher reward for work done.
· A
sense of entitlement. The inability to deal with life’s challenges due to the
belief ‘it is not supposed to happen to me’.
I would never have believed I was narcissistic until my
beloved spiritual teacher lovingly pointed out the behaviors of narcissistic
people. Lo and behold I found I shared the traits of a narcissistic individual.
I am generous and loving, and would not have caught the subtle energies of
narcissism that dominated my actions as a teen and adult.
Now that I have experienced narcissism, I can share how
it impacted me and how to heal from this emotion.
How did narcissism impact my life?
· I
was unhappy for the best part of my early life due to my need to inflate myself
and ‘prove’ myself to another through work and other accomplishments. The day
was filled with the desire to be one step above another. That is a lonely place
to be.
· I
was not able to find a job for a long time as I believed most jobs were ‘below’
my intelligence.
· I
could not have open hearted friendship as I was unable to have emotional
intimacy with another. I attracted narcissistic people in my life. Like
attracts like.
What makes a narcissist?
1.
Emotional needs being neglected as a child.
2.
Being raised up by a narcissist, whose
emotional needs were ignored when they were a child.
Hence the root cause is not something one can control as
a child; however it can be healed as an adult. This is what allows one to have
sympathy for narcissism. Do not judge a person by their actions now, try to
understand the root cause and then take action to help the person be complete
with that lesson.
Remember, a narcissistic person is more insecure that
you are, hence you can have more compassion.
How can you help a narcissistic personality heal emotionally?
1.
Pay attention to their feeling and let them
know you are empathetic. Do this from a place of open heart. Avoid being phony.
2.
Help the other know the equality in
creation. Discuss the law of karma – what you put out, comes back. Not having
the emotional needs taken care of a child is also karmic in nature. It is our
job, as an adult, to parent the inner child within us so we have the emotional
healing needed.
3.
Define good boundaries and make sure your
needs are clearly articulated. Take care of yourself and let the narcissistic
personality know you matter. This step has to be lovingly done for it to not incur
further division. This will help the narcissistic personality slowly wake up to
start listening to another’s needs.
4.
In severe cases I recommend therapy or
spiritual teaching from an advanced Emotional Healer. I recommend Dr. Carley J.
Henius (www.EmotionalHealer.com)
5.
I recommend the following books:
a.
Feelings Buried Alive Never Die by Karol
Truman
b.
Emotional Resilience by David Viscott
c.
The Emotionally Abused Woman by Beverly
Engel
Simple steps lead to phenomenal results, when led with
patience and love.
Values and Virtues
I believe the grandest happiness in our human evolution
depends on our mastery of virtues and having a sound value system.
I grew up with the belief money was of the highest
value. I associated my power to the amount of money I owned and the job title I
held.
Life has a way of balancing everything when one is
passionate about self mastery – the mastery of fears and limited beliefs which
keep us in the Hamster wheel of momentary highs followed by a low.
I finally got it after years of contemplation, I found I
am in a happier place in life when I master virtues, and in order to do that,
my value system needed an overhaul!
I
had to stop valuing something that comes and goes and has a short life span.
This included money, looks, job title, and approval from others! There is
nothing wrong about being affluent or having a great job, however it does not
define who I am! My relationship with everything material became more
fulfilling when I had a good foundation on virtues.
I had to find out what values help me to be in a
consistent state of OKness, with
consistent evolution to greater happiness each day.
When I value faith and patience, I no longer need quick
gratification. This avoids a whole lot of stimulants in the form of food,
gossip and meaningless television entertainment.
When I value equality and see everyone as my equal, I
find people treat me as their equal. The low income worker, my subordinate at
work, the homeless man on the street are all my equal. Each one is experiencing
the lessons they need to master, which is between them and God – I am not their
judge and jury!
When I value humility, I am at peace. I now have
realized I really know nothing in the scheme of all things.
The values and virtues in our life is what give us the
ability to master any life threatening challenges from a place of emotional maturity and grace. This
is when we have the power to be the solution.
An Invitation To Stop Worshiping Your Spiritual Teacher
I am from India where putting teachers on a pedestal and
worshiping them is the norm. I grew up thinking this is ok, as I believed that
teacher has the power of the Supreme Creator and she/he is divinely blessed by
the Creator.
As I grew up and emotional maturation started blooming,
which is a work in process, I realized there was something wrong with this
picture. Everyone on the spiritual path gets abilities to see Unseen Beings,
channel other great teachers from many realms, heal another, and to predict the
future. This has nothing to do with emotional maturity. No matter what powers a teacher exhibits, the
teacher is a student, alongside being a teacher, until they master all earth lessons and have
ascension. If the teacher allows
worshiping and encourages it, it is about their low self-esteem and an
invitation for them to do the work of emotional healing.
As the powers were given to me, I did take a few
missteps and my ego got in the way. I later realized, the powers given to channel great
teachers and divine beings can be easily misused by the unhealed unconscious
mind of the teacher. I wanted to be placed on a pedestal at one point due to my
insecurity and deluded myself for a short time. Wisdom came with experience,
and now I know no matter what powers are given to me, in my path of living in
truth and releasing my fears, I will always be a student even as I teach, and I
really know nothing in the scheme of all things.
A good teacher is one who helps the students stop
worshiping anything materially or not, and leads them back to the Creator
within them – a work in process for all of us.
Take a moment to use discernment before you worship
another human being. Not worshiping anything is a health way to be. You will
have greater devotion for the Creator and all of mankind when you can see God
in everyone. We are all a divine work in progress and every teacher has flaws
they are learning to overcome. Take what
is true in every teaching and leave the rest.
Openhearted Communication - Allowing all to be who they are, including self
We are all
students at mastering loving communication. We are all evolving to a state of
peace and wholeness within the self, by mastering our fears and limited
beliefs. Here are some points I found
helpful towards having an openhearted communication at work and at home.
1. Open to
being wrong and willing to learn from anyone, irrespective of age, job title,
spiritual affiliations or any other differences.
2. Loving
our imperfections allows us to easily accept another person’s limitations.
Allow imperfections in self, while consciously working on releasing fears and
limiting beliefs every day.
3. Speaking
our truth in a nonjudgmental manner, in spite our fears and insecurities, while
allowing another the full freedom to reject our ideas.
4. Accepting
other person’s insecurities and allowing their evolution to wholeness in their
own time. Avoid emphasizing another person’s shortcomings, as that reflects our
insecurity.
5. Allowing
projection by others by mentally saying ‘I am going to hold the space for you
to hear yourself, so you can heal the aspect that thinks the problem lies
outside of yourself’.
6. Having
awareness of our projections onto others, by paying attention to the denial of
our own shadows or limiting beliefs.
Conscious
practice of steps 1 through 6 allows us to know when to be firm and when to
yield, all done with an even tone arising from a place of zero or less fear.
Sessions available to release fears and limiting beliefs.
Unconditional Love
I deeply contemplate on how I can help the world become united and heal each other, and give a helping hand to the needy, without worrying about what they lose materially in the act of giving.
There is a difference between unselfish action from unconditional love and sacrifice/martyrdom. In my experience, unconditional love is based on truth untouched by fears in the unconscious mind. Sacrifice/martyrdom is based on fear and poverty thought. The universe is abundance itself, and as a small part of the universe, my limited beliefs within my unconscious mind can think I need to sacrifice, however when I see the abundance from the Creator in another fearless thought, I feel sacrifice and martyrdom is very limiting. We cant create abundance of magnificence from a limiting thought.
How do we love another unconditionally?
We can’t really love another unconditionally until we can love our self and our shadows unconditionally. When I could love my arrogance, love my constant judgments towards myself and others running in my mind, love my need for acceptance at the cost of not speaking my truth – I have love for myself. I can now love the same arrogance, judgments, and lack of speaking the truth in another. I know I am not better than anyone. We all are simply working out our fears through life experiences and coming closer to absolute truth at revealing all the hidden within us, whereby open our hearts to love in abundance.
This is where empathy is born, the feeling of ‘I know what your challenge is, and I feel your suffering and I want to do something to help you end it.’
Until we can come to that place of unconditional love, we will create difficulty, stress, physical challenges, and lose our happiness.
The choice is simple. However, walking it takes the greatest tenacity, courage and faith in self in my experience. Living in truth does not win any popularity contest with relatives & co-workers, however when delivered with love and compassion in an non-judgmental even tone, a few brave ones will be inspired to do the same to another.
That is unconditional love. I love myself so much I will reflect truth back to you, and you can do whatever you want to do with it. Maybe love another the same way…
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My Miracle in 2010: To Know God Heard Me AT My Time Of Need
I have had some great challenges since last November 2009, which
included losing my home, leaving my child behind and moving to another state to
be taken care of by my brother, health challenges since Jan 8th requiring 2
hospital stays, besides not having the financial resources to start my own
living. This was new to me as I was financially very independent and earned well for
the last 10 years. I had a lesson to master here.
I cried to God and my spiritual teacher to give me a miracle as the medical
bills were huge and I had no means of paying it.
This morning when I woke up, I asked God and my teachers with great passion, to
give me a BIG success.
Within a couple of hours Yuma Medical Hospital called me and said they are
waiving the $15,000 I owed them!
A few weeks back Providence Medical Hospital Washington also waived the $15000
I owe them, again after I asked God and my teacher for a BIG success.
God gave me $30,000 and now I KNOW God hears me when earlier I was doubtful
about it to some degree. My faith is a
work in process and the more I see God in everyone, fully knowing each one is
evolving at the speed that is right for them, I can accept the world without
criticisms. The world is a caring loving place and there are wonderful people
out there. I just had to open my eyes to see them.
In order for me to change my reality to a one far better than what I had created, I had to say:
-No to Drama.
-No to Pessimism.
-No to Criticism.
-No to believing the past will repeat itself, knowing if I
do believe it, I will create it by the power of my thoughts and emotions
-No to blaming others for my creation, by not taking a chance, not learning new skills or not leaving a relationship when it was time.
And say
-Yes. I am a student and I am working on my
unconscious fears, every day. I will
set aside 1 hour every day, no matter how late or how early it is, for my
emotional well being and my happiness. Now I know what gives me true happiness,
it comes from within me when I am know I can change my reality to one I like,
by releasing all self-sabotaging programs every day.
-Yes. What I see in another person, that I don’t like,
is a lesson for me to see the same repressed shadow within me, or to learn
virtues like acceptance and unconditional love.
-Yes. I am going to get to know the Supreme
Creator one step at a time. God will reveal God at the level I can
handle without misinterpretation by my unconscious fears.
Love,
Maya
I have offered the powerful
technique of
releasing fears in my book The
Power of Illusion.
Testimonials from clients and students
Happy Health; Happy Wealth; Happy Love
I
found the 3 gifts that make me happy are: Happy Health, Happy Wealth and Happy Love.
It word Happy changed my definition of health, wealth and love to something deeper
and stronger enriching my life beyond measure.
Happy Health
The
world is seeking good health and I did that too, for many years, and in that
journey I discovered the recipe that works for me.
Happy
Health results from 3 key points:
1. Handling our unresolved
emotional healing so we do not impact our physical body with the hidden stress
and sabotage our physical well being. Humans need a way to deal with unresolved
emotions. It can be drugs, food, sex, work, exercise and even spiritual
practices, which can all get out of balance if used as a method to feed unresolved
emotions held in the body and mind. Have a practice to write to the fear aspect
within and understand the purpose for having it, re-educate it and release it
from within the unconscious mind. I have offered the powerful technique of
releasing fears in my book The Power of Illusion.
2. Changing old Neural networks
that program the body to like a certain type of non healthy diet, and embrace a
higher way of energizing our sacred body. A good way to change a pattern is to
do a fast with Organic raw vegetable juice freshly prepared for at least 7
days, so the system is cleansed to a great degree. With this fresh start, start
the new healthy eating without gluten, sugar and/or dairy. Each one’s body is
unique and you will know your ideal food intake following conscious eating. You
will find it easier to stick to a permanent program if toxins are released from
the body. I have also observed the need for 30 days of deep self discipline to
change a behavior. Visualizing a healthy lifestyle, see yourself get
passionate about running a race or feeling light in the body. Do this exercise for at least 1
hour every morning, with eyes closed. This will help create new Neural Networks
in the brain. The more the visualization is done, along with releasing fears
daily, the thicker the neural pathway and quicker the manifestation.
3. Happy Health is a process and
not a onetime fix. As we make small changes every day, the more toxins are
released and we gain more strength and vigor in the body as the liver does not have
to struggle to release the toxins. The body gets into its natural detox
mechanism in the process of taking pure nutrition without pesticides and
hidden toxins.
Happy
Wealth
Happy
Wealth is a state that we arrive to when we are not led by money and material;
we are led by the joy of experiencing good things in life from a place of self
contentment with the knowing of who we are. We stop seeking wealth and we start
seeking Truth within us. The truth that cleanses us of all hidden negative
shadows like arrogance, lack of self worth, jealousy, envy, competitiveness and
anything that sabotages happiness.
When
we have the tenacity to not give up in life, and the courage to face any
challenge God gives us, we have a strong core within us that has greater power than
money in the bank. We are complete and nothing external can feed our needs in
an unhealthy manner. We enjoy all material from a place of great joy and
gratitude without being hooked on to it.
Money
comes and we share it with all who is needy and keep the continuous flow of
money - received in gratitude and given in generosity. This is a place of Happy Wealth. A place of
knowing I am worthy to desire God’s gifts and my value system is grounded in my
truth, loving God, loving my shadows and loving humanity and all creations through
eyes of equality
Happy
Love
A
love radiating from the truth within, not tainted by neediness or hidden agenda
is Happy Love.
It
is a good idea to take the time to discover who we are without a crowd
affirming what they want us to be. In that process of deep self discovery, we
get to release what does not serve our highest and embrace virtues. Isn’t life
finally about mastering virtues? Challenges teach virtues
like patience, tenacity, love, courage and faith. I have found my happiness to
be causeless and untainted by apparent physical limitations, when my virtues
are strong. God’s messages are clear to me in this state as my fears no longer not
block or alter divine messages. Every
few seconds of communicating with the Creator fills my heart with love. A love
that is causeless and loves ALL with zero judgments. A love that does not care
if the person Maya loses her money or job, but moves with a higher purpose to
have justice and serve the needy. That causeless love is a Happy Love, my heart
is open and love gently resides without fear.
I wish you great joy in
discovering Happy Health, Happy Wealth and Happy Love
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Having Hope & Faith When We Need It Most
It was easy for me to desire great spiritual
enlightenment and oneness with all of creation. However, taking the steps that
can lead to it was a challenge. In order for consciousness to evolve to a
higher state, we need to take stock of the current situation and ask the
question why enlightenment has not happened yet. Is it fears and limited
beliefs that is preventing us from being in a constant state of happiness?
We cannot live from a state of the highest wellbeing, when our unconscious mind
is cluttered with fears. Our limited beliefs will alter truth and make it a “convenient
truth”! Our devotion to what is really true, at the risk of losing all that we
hold as valuable, is what can allow our Truth to shine without alterations by
the unconscious mind. Remember, the unconscious mind can prevent revelation of hidden
fears out of self preservation. Truth
does not preserve anything other than Truth.
I love the cycles the ego sometimes takes until greater awareness resides
permanently.
1.
The ego meets a challenge
2.
It may give up thinking it can’t succeed
OR
it tries to do it expecting
instant results.
3.
When success does not come after
repetitive attempts, the personality may give up thinking it does not work!
4.
The next challenge arrives and back on
the cycle, this time with a lessened resolve to face life’s challenges.
The ego/personality may forget to have an honest
reflection on failures.
·
Maybe the lesson was to see a core
limiting pattern and release it.
·
Maybe the lesson was to master virtues
like tenacity, patience, courage.
·
Maybe the delay was a karmic learning,
until good deeds fills up the positive karma bank.
In scientific researches to identify new solution
to medical conditions, the scientists work on many samples of data and study
all the effects, sometime spanning a few years, before they can claim a new product
works. Science does not work on instant results, unless you want a product that
has not been tested well.
The student of life, the computer engineer or spiritual healer forgets this
principle of Active Waiting.
Actively working on the project for however long it takes, and waiting for
results to show without ceasing the effort.
If the scientist and visionaries gave up hope on the winds turning in favor, we
would not have had the greatest inventions and masterpieces in history.
Thomas Edison's teachers said he was "too stupid to
learn anything." He was fired from his first two jobs for being
"non-productive." As an inventor, Edison made 1,000 unsuccessful
attempts at inventing the light bulb. When a reporter asked, "How did it
feel to fail 1,000 times?" Edison replied, "I didn’t fail 1,000
times. The light bulb was an invention with 1,000 steps."
Albert Einstein did not speak until he was 4-years-old and
did not read until he was 7. His parents thought he was "sub-normal,"
and one of his teachers described him as "mentally slow, unsociable, and
adrift forever in foolish dreams."
Henry Ford failed and went broke five
times before he succeeded.
Louis Pasteur was only a mediocre pupil in undergraduate
studies and ranked 15th out of 22 students in chemistry.
Walt Disney was fired by a newspaper editor because
"he lacked imagination and had no good ideas." He went bankrupt
several times before he built Disneyland. In fact, the proposed park was
rejected by the city of Anaheim on the grounds that it would only attract
riffraff.
After
his first audition, Sidney Poitier
was told by the casting director, "Why don't
you stop wasting people's time and go out and become a dishwasher or
something?" It was at that moment, recalls Poitier, that he decided to
devote his life to acting.
Beethoven handled the violin awkwardly and preferred playing
his own compositions instead of improving his technique. His teacher called him
"hopeless as a composer." And, of course, you know that he wrote five
of his greatest symphonies while completely deaf.
Van Gogh sold only one painting during his life. This
didn't stop him from completing over 800 paintings.
After Carl Lewis won the
gold medal for the long jump in the 1996 Olympic games, he was asked to what he
attributed his longevity, having competed for almost 20 years. He said,
"Remembering that you have both wins and losses along the way. I don't
take either one too seriously."
These visionaries did not give up hope. They
saw the success in the unseen.
Faith is taking a leap into the unknown, gaining the
wisdom with each leap, to reveal the presence of something greater than human
conditioning and fears.
"Our greatest glory is not in never
falling but in rising every time we fall."
~ Confucius
Do not give up no matter what!
When you fall down, take a couple of breaths down
there, check out the landscape, rethink your strategy, get back up and have a
go at it again.
The next time you fall down, affirm:
Failure
teaches me courage and tenacity.
Success
teaches me gratitude and service.
Thank
you God for this. So Be It.
Neither failure nor success teaches the virtue of Truth,
which is an existing character that
helps us to succeed in life. How we
react to failure and success is the measure of our emotional maturity and not
the actual outcome itself.
Affirmations for Faith
I
take a lead into the Unknown
I
know nothing in the scheme of all creation
I
allow God to be revealed to me in God’s time
I
have the tenacity to not give up until I am one with God.
Thank
you God for this. So be it.
Surrendering My Will To God
I cruised through life creating every moment based
on what I carried in my conscious mind informed by the fears in my unconscious mind.
Once in a while, my unconscious would allow messages from my Higher Self to
seep into my conscious mind without any alterations. That is when I get my
epiphanies and opportunities that help to raise my frequency and overall state
of consciousness. Not once in those moments did I contemplate on surrendering
my will to God. That was a fearful job for me as it meant I had to hand over my
control to another and I did not trust the unknown Source. I understand why my
unconscious mind had this fear as I had a belief the universe was not safe. The
reflex action in manifesting desires touch an existing Neuro Pathway in the
brain which carried the message ‘THE
WORLD IS NOT SAFE!’ So the idea of surrendering to God, though I wanted it
consciously, did not appeal to my unconscious. So I held on to my free will and
created life from what ‘I’ knew best based on past experiences. I did not try
new experiences as that was unsafe, that had the probability of not turning out
to be in my favor. Little did I know my past failure were due to several
reasons, some of it was associated with my Soul desiring for me to master
virtues, and some had to do with self sabotaging due to existing Neuro Pathways
having the hardcoded message ‘NEW THINGS
DO NOT WORK – STAY OFF. DO NOT RISK!’
Alas,
how we delude our self and call it ‘discernment’!
When illusion masquerades as ‘Truth’ we need knee high boots to shovel the
garbage out of the way before the real truth can shine!
Then God decided to place me in the right places
in life so I can learn precious lessons so I can reduce the unconscious self sabotaging
of my happiness. So what did God do? Well, the Beloved allowed me to feel the
effects of my past actions and experience my fears fully by bringing me to a
state of homelessness due to lack of finance, fear for personal safety with daily
crank calls, separated from my 14 year old son and uprooted from one state to
another state to live with my brother with whom I did not have a close
relationship. I stayed with my brother so I can discover what being part of a
family unit and tribe meant, as my relationship with the world was estranged.
Fear of being hurt dominated that decision.
In this new environment, I got to know my East
Indian culture which I had walked away in anger 15 years back. I got to experience
the openness of receiving, laughter every day, and being enveloped in the love
from my brother and sister in law. They took my financial burden and started
paying my bills. Knowing I was living a healthy lifestyle, they bought me
Organic food even though they did not choose it for themselves. The home
suddenly had a water filtration system! They were devoted to keeping me
comfortable and happy.
I saw the romance, laughter, teasing, love, tenderness
between them that made me change my views about arranged marriages not working.
I realized the success of a marriage has
little to do with pre-arranged or not, it has more to do with the state of
consciousness of the 2 people, and how much they see the other partner in reverence.
This couple was not ‘spiritual’ and did not attend talks on relationships;
however they can be powerful teachers to many on the art of being flexible, being
obedient, considerate and loving each other. I was an eager student learning it
all.
Then God decided it was time for another
revelation. I had a certain health condition where my immune system needed
strengthening. My kidney, liver, heart, lymph, bones, muscles were some of the areas
impacted. Fatigue, fingers and toes ballooned up for 3 weeks and no amount of
herbal supplements worked. Even having raw veggie juices, raw soups did not
help. This was an invitation to get to
deepen my connection to God.
I was scared.
I finally did an ancient Ayurvedic treatment
called PanchKarma and I was introduced to the practitioner, a 62 year old wise
sage who was devoted to her karma (work) and a loving no-nonsense mother.
She saw what
I was not telling her and she started healing me on many levels. After 4 days
of treatment, the sadness in my heart broke the lock and flowed out as tears. I
called out to God in agony. The revelations given were powerful. I had the free will to discover life any way I
desired. I enjoyed some parts and suffered for most parts. Now something in me
was ready to say I SURRENDER! I
realized being an engineer and a high income from Day 1 of my career for 13
years did not keep homelessness away from my life. I had padded myself with security
and when the time came for challenges stemmed from past negative karma, there was
really no protection unless I had conscious collaboration with the Divine in
every step. Walking hand in hand with the Creator allows me to have a sense of
peace deep within, even when the problems exist. I
realized even though I am the doer, there is a GIVER and that is not me!
The person Maya was a very small aspect of it until I realize my God given
powers and embrace it grounded in truth and love. A the end of the meditation, God
responded “My
Way is the HIGH Way”
I cried and I rested.
How Do I Release My Attachment To Dysfunction? A spiritual student ponders...
We are all addicted to dysfunction to some degree. In my journey of releasing my “stuff” that prevents me from living an abundant and joyful life, I noticed there were some areas where I am a dysfunction addict.
For example,
~I love to sit in my sadness and not let go, until I realize that blaming the world for my past really does not help.
~I enjoy my bouts of anger at the Creator, until I realize what my part was in the creation of life’s drama!
~Once in a blue moon I love to indulge in mind blowing anxiety, until I realize I am trying to control something which is no longer in my domain.
So, why am I not letting go of all dysfunctions in record time, when I know it does not serve me?
This is because my conscious mind has not yet convinced the diverse aspects of the unconscious self to coorporate in the journey towards God and grand happiness. My self-mastery is still a work in process.
~My judgmental self loves to blame myself and the world. She would be jobless if she agreed to stop judgments! Maybe I can bless each judgment instead of getting entangled with it.
~My inner child has temper tantrums every so often, until my conscious mind reins her in with logic and love. Maybe I can re-parent her and let this aspect know that I am the one who has to take care of her and not the world.
~My employable self loses interest at working if I don’t have quick gains after reasonable effort. Then the re-parenting by the conscious mind on why instant gratification does not work helps to calm her down. The cincher is when I gently point to her the fact that our fears are preventing success from coming to us. Now, that is when she really becomes humble.
All my diverse selves are all finally cooperating in my desire to manifest happiness every moment by manifesting all my desires grounded in truth and in devotion to my Beloved Creator.
Maybe one day all the aspects within me will completely and undeniably bow to the divine presence within me. That day I will sing Halleluiah!
Until then, I will release each attachment to dysfunction with the same love and devotion a parent uses to coach a tiresome teen or a whiny ten year old!
Patience is mine! Humility is mine! Thank you God for this. So be it!
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Does God Hear Me?
A spiritual student’s search for absolute truth
Somewhere in our exploration of life, mastering
challenges, and in the process of discovering happiness, we all come to places
of self doubt, lack of faith, disappointments and a general lack of wellbeing
in all levels of our being. Then a questions
pops up, does
God hear me?
In my experience there is a cycle we repeat, until
we don’t.
Step
1:
A challenge causes us to step away from happiness due to lack of faith in God.
Step
2:
Self doubt sets in to question if we can really master this challenge
successfully.
Step
3:
We release some unwanted fears have an Aha moment and faith is restored. We are
happy.
Step
4:
A bigger challenge awaits us and we are back to step 1.
Each time I lose my faith that God hears me, I
realize it is an opportunity to open my heart a little bit more and surrender
to something greater that is beyond my knowing.
Each cycle is a lesson in humility; in embracing I
really know nothing in the scheme of all things.
I believe the cycle ends when I arrive at a place
where NOTHING sways me from the place of happiness, no matter what life has to
offer. Fear and doubt does not touch me as I now know I have a part and God has
a part. My
part is to make sure my ship stays afloat and I make steady progress to the harbor.
God’s part is in throwing me a lifeline when I am thrown overboard, and hopefully
my unconscious fears will not miss seeing it.
Until that great day of unwavering happiness, I can
gladly say my faith in God is a work in process. I am ready to settle into a
state of OKness in my relationship with God.
-It is OK I don’t know that God hears me, until I
do.
-It is OK the messages I get from God can be
misinterpreted by my unconscious fears, until I don’t.
-It is OK I am in fear living in the unknown, during
a challenge, until clarity is given.
As long as I sit in this place of ‘this is where I am at and I
plan to do better the next moment’, I am OK. If
I don’t take action to release my fears and move to a higher way of living,
then I am caught in the drama which does nothing for my happiness.
I chose to step aside from the drama, each moment,
and create a new life every moment by:
1. Honestly
accepting where I am at today, without denial or self inflation.
2. Owning
the areas that needs change within me, so my outside reality can change.
3. Have
the devotion and perseverance in changing my reality by releasing fears and limiting
beliefs from my unconscious mind.
4. Have
the patience, or not until I do, when I repeat the same ’ol nonsense until I
stop self defeating patterns.
This way, I am being an honest human, embracing her limitations
in humility, and having the courage to dream outrageously to deep dive into happiness
every moment.
My soul is a kick ass teacher. She/He/It is constantly
throwing one challenge after another to see if I am able to catch my
limitations and release it. When I complain, my soul simply gives me more of
the same challenge until I reform and see the hidden blessing.
I now know self doubt is a step in the process of building
my character, so I shine fearlessly with a deeper connection to something which
makes me bow in reverence and cry humble tears. My life is a work in process until
I fully deep dive into the ever present happiness, even when I lose all I hold
as valuable.
I am open to being teachable by all God chooses to
teach me since my life needs improvement, and my unconscious mind needs the
advice of another higher being to help break my denials.
Maybe one day, I will know with zero ambiguity that God Hears Me
Every time. Until then, I will continue cleaning up
my act and owning my ‘stuff’ without denial.
I will continue living a life of truth and speaking
my truth at work and home, without fear of rejection.
I will continue loving myself everyday by having
compassion for my shadows like self inflation, self doubt, and unworthiness or
need to be right. These good ol’ shadows have a purpose to open my heart more
each day, as I have the courage to see them in its fullness without passing the
buck and blaming the universe for my problems.
This life is truly a journey in discovering who I am,
with the knowing God hears me on some days and I have no clue on other days. I
am a work in process.
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Fierce Grace - A Call To Release Limited Beliefs Within Us
We cruise along the highway called life, and one fine morning something is not the same as it was before. A loved one decides to end the relationship, the salary has been reduced, or a health challenge came into light. Whatever the challenge is, there is always a hidden purpose as to why this event took place, and our unconscious mind has the answer. Maybe our job was just a means to make money with no real joy attached to it. Maybe the relationship had died long before we got the wake up call. Seeing the hidden gift through fierce grace is truly what opens our heart to love our self more and open our mind to consider possibilities we earlier ignored.
Fierce
grace is God’s way of waking us up when we refused to do it on our own. It is fierce grace that cleans up what is not
working and propels us to a higher state of being.
The recent economic crisis has urged many people to evaluate how money is being spent. Conservative spending has been embraced as seen by the several high end shops that have gone out of business. We are moving away from the credit card culture to the savings account culture. It took an economic collapse for us to make this change. Fierce grace simply rocked us out of our denial. I am grateful my eyes are now opened.
When fierce grace knocks at my door, I go through the motions of fear,
anger and sadness and then I roll up my sleeves to start my self-improvement
work. The quest begins to release limiting beliefs within me so I can clean up
the old which is not working, to make way for the new higher way of existing. Using the same old limited neuronetwork gives
the same old limited reality. I start the work of creating new neuronetwork in
the brain.
Recently, I had to downsize my home from a 3 bedroom unit to a smaller
1bedroom unit, which included a move from the city to the country. The challenges in store for me were: no
internet connection for 25 days, no utilities like heater, stove, washer dryer
for 15 days in the mountains, and to top it all off I also had problems with
kidney and liver, which stunned me since I am a very health conscious
person. Fierce grace was indeed all over
me! I was angry at God as I considered myself a very honest person, and I am
very conscious of owning my fears everyday and releasing it. So I was sad and
mad at the universe for not supporting me. Lo and behold, I found I was not
really as honest as I thought I was. Being an Author, a Spiritual teacher and a
Computer Engineer with wonderful benefits in Corporate America had given me a
false sense of security and arrogance, which got to be seen in its full
delusion.
I rolled up my sleeves and started my work of communicating with the
unconscious mind to understand the purpose behind each limitation. My
unconscious mind revealed that I really was seeing a very small percentage of
my reality and the rest were filtered, out of fear of change, fear of unknown,
fear of not being the ‘superior’ person my unconscious wanted me to feel. So it
decided to hide its fear of unworthiness by pretending to be a ‘know-it-all’,
and come to quick conclusions with very limited data! At the end result of my cleansing, I had more
flexibility, more humility, more love, more devotion, and more openness to ‘see’
everyone as my equal than ever before. The greatest gift was when I started
having more divine visions and greater knowledge about my reality. Fierce grace
gave me something greater than I ever dreamt. My humility, self love, love for
another has allowed me to receive more divine wisdom from the Beloved Creator.
I have found life to be all about happiness that comes from my courage
to live in absolute truth and taking responsibility for my creations. My happiness lies in releasing fears,
releasing hidden shadows like competitiveness or narcissism and welcoming a
deeper conscious connection to the Supreme Creator. In illusion we cannot ignore our humanity for
a higher divinity. Everything has to be seen and healed in the light of truth. In
this process I have released who I chose not to be anymore, so I can shine
brightly in the full glory of the goodness within me. This is a process and I
am polishing myself every day so I shine brighter and this increases my
happiness meter.
Sometimes we forget where true happiness lies in pursuit of the next
high through material accumulation and mindless activities. When we act from
our center and consciously take decisions from the highest place we have access
to, we create a happier life for us and we stop being the problem for our
society and our environment.
Let us be the solution and clean up our act,
lovingly. Allow fierce grace to reveal all that is hidden so there
are no more fear based actions.
Let us
be the solution and take responsibility for our reality. What did we do
to have a life of depression, lack of connection to anything sacred within and
lack of service? What did we do to lose the simple pleasures in life? Why did
we program our brain to get the high from media and food abuse, instead of the
joy in being in nature and being thrilled at seeing a baby deer frolic? When
did we become this jaded? Did our culture do this to us? No. We did this to us
because we had a choice every moment and our value system also needed some fine
tuning. Once we own our ‘stuff’, then it is just a matter of time to release
all the limiting beliefs associated to the 1st dysfunctional
behavior. Let it all go. Allow fierce grace to be the catalyst to change our
state of being to open heartedness and love. Along the way, we can enjoy the
changes in our reality evolving to be rich and fulfilling as dreams come true.
My journey of seeing the hidden purpose for every fear within my
unconscious has resulted in my book The
Power of Illusion. There are techniques in the book to identify and release
unconscious sabotaging of our desires in order to allow conscious creation of
happiness.
Daily
Affirmation: Thank you God for allowing me see all the conflicting
beliefs and limiting life patterns so I may release it. Thank you God that my
actions are in alignment with that which is the highest, God. So be it.
'Self' Creation
What is ‘Self’ Creation? It is creating a NEW YOU
after seeing the OLD YOU with its fears and limited beliefs is no longer working. When the happiness meter is low, and not consistent, it is time for action and time for change.
It is simple.
If
you do not have gratitude, you do not receive in abundance.
If
you do not have unconditional love, you do not receive unconditional love.
If you believe you are a victim, you will attract situations where you are victimized.
If you have -ve karma from a past action, that needs to be experienced so you can heal your past by having compassion for who/what is hurting you in the present.
So self creation is simply put as - off with the old
limiting beliefs and on with the new higher thoughts.
Now the complexity lies in your resistance to change.
Aha! The futile thought is doing the same thing
every day, walking the same walk, but expecting miracles. Well, there are
miracles, it is always there. Fierce Grace has a way of wiping the wind off our sails so we may reform. That is a miracle. You are looking for quick fixes and forgetting to roll up your
sleeves and getting to work
See what is not working honestly. Remember, this is
about going 100%, and not stopping at 50% and believing “I have done enough and
now I want the benefit of the cleanup of 100%”!
Self creation starts now.
What can I create within myself that is luxurious, glowing
and rocking in virtues?
How is my virtue list doing? Good, Bad, Ugly?
| VIRTUE | DEFINITION |
|
Acceptance
|
To allow the past without anger, by seeing the blessing in each challenge. |
|
Courage |
A quality of
spirit that enables to walk through fearful situations without running away. |
|
Caution |
Avoidance
of rashness, attention to safety. |
|
Curiosity |
A desire to find
out and know things. |
|
Determination |
Firmness
of purpose. |
|
Devotion
|
Unwavering love
and commitment to a person, work or
anything fully grounded in truth, and great love. |
|
Discretion
|
Being
discrete in ones speech, keeping secrets, good boundaries. |
|
Flexibility
|
Adaptable, able
to be changed to suit circumstances. |
|
Focus |
Concentrated
awareness and effort. |
|
Forgiveness
|
To cease to feel
angry or bitter towards a person fully knowing there is a purpose to every
difficulty in life, and all there is left is to understand the gift within through
emotional healing, and gain greater wisdom. For forgiveness to take place,
the past must be seen fully and healed to the depth needed. Until then
forgiveness may only be a conscious decision, and not an unconscious full
body decision. |
|
Generosity
|
Giving
without any agenda. |
|
Gentleness
|
Not pushy,
harsh, rough or severe. |
|
Gratitude
|
Being
thankful for every breath, every step, every meal, every convenience in life
and everything. This comes from knowing everything that we enjoy is a gift
from God. |
|
Honesty
|
Truthful;
sincere; not cheating. |
|
Humbleness
|
Modest;
not arrogant or boastful. |
|
Humor
|
The ability to
perceive, enjoy, or express what is amusing, comical, incongruous, or absurd. |
|
Impartiality
|
Fair. |
|
Industry
|
Diligent,
hardworking. |
|
Innocence
|
Guileless,
not guilty. |
|
Justice
|
Fair, impartial,
giving a deserved response. |
|
Kindness
|
Friendly,
helpful, well meaning. Takes time to do an altruistic act consistently. |
|
Love
|
A deep, tender
feeling arising from a sense of underlying oneness. Love is a result of
healing the emotions from the past and living in truth, so one can tap into
the wealth of Love already present
within. |
|
Loyalty
|
Steadfast
in allegiance to one's homeland, government, or sovereign. Faithful to a
person. Can be trusted to show up at any cost. |
|
Moderation
|
Balance in all
things. Evenness in all things. The avoidance of extremes in one’s actions or
opinions. |
|
Obedience
|
Willingness
to obey, to be controlled when necessary, to carry out orders. |
|
Openness
|
Ready and
willing to talk candidly. |
|
Patience
|
The
ability to endure delay of desires knowing everything comes in God’s time,
and all one can do is release all fears that block the receiving the gift. |
|
Peace
|
Freedom from
mental agitation; serenity. This is a byproduct of self mastery, which
includes emotional healing. |
|
Prudence
|
Wise
or careful in conduct. Shrewd or thrifty in planning ahead. |
|
Reliability
|
Can be trusted
to do something. |
|
Responsibility
|
Having
control over and accountability for appropriate events. |
|
Sensitivity
|
Heightened
awareness of oneself and others within the context of social and personal
relationships. |
|
Simplicity
|
Straightforward;
not complex or complicated. Unpretentious. Does not use the gift of the gab
to manipulate or twist truth into untruth. |
|
Sincerity
|
Free from
pretense or deceit in manner or actions. |
|
Spontaneity
|
Natural,
not planned. |
|
Steadfastness
|
Firm, resolute;
determinedly unwavering. |
|
Strength
|
A
rock solid center within, unshakable by any challenge. This comes with a
solid connection to the God within, which gives the ability to withstand
anything easily and effortlessly. |
|
Temperance
|
Moderation and
self-restraint, as in behavior or expression. |
|
Tranquility
|
Serenely
quiet and peaceful; undisturbed fully knowing you have the ability to master
all challenges that come your way. |
|
Trust
|
Trusting in self
to complete all agreements made prior to incarnating. |
|
Trustworthiness
|
Able
to be trusted or depended on; reliable. |
A suggestion is to review the above list and pay
attention to the ones that you feel need improvement.
Then take one virtue a day, affirm as soon as you open your eyes in the morning:
God I am ready to master ( name the virtue)
within me 100%. Thank you God for this. So be it.
Then pay attention the whole day, and every golden
opportunity presented where you are slightly off on that virtue, write to your
unconscious mind at the end of the day and release it. The book The Power of
Illusion has a simple technique to embrace a new way of thinking, acting &
manifesting by releasing the old blocks within the unconscious mind. Next day
take another virtue from the list, even if you are not complete with the first
one. Continue this process until you come to the end of the list. Then start
again and repeat cycle.
Self creation is your job. It is your job is to ensure the
unconscious mind releases limiting thoughts. We cant bypass our 'stuff' for a more 'spiritual' experience. You can only be in denial until that no longer is an option.
So self creation is simple. All that is needed is to love yourself so
much so that, you desire a happy and peaceful life and are willing to do whatever it takes to release fears and master virtues.
Equality
What causes inequality amongst people?
¨
Believing
the thought “we are less than another”
or “greater than another” is the basis for inequality.
It It starts with the sense of separation
that is created due to insecurity, and it can progress to greater separation
like war.
Why do we have inequality?
Here are some beliefs that create separation
between human beings and a feeling of ‘lesser than’ or ‘greater than’ another:
· “I feel worthy and lovable, when I feel I am superior to another and when I am number #1. I now create life experiences by making another wrong for having a different opinion.”
· “If I see another as equal to me, I am no longer special. I need to feel special so I judge others”.
· "If my religious
views are not 100% true then I am scared, as all my assumptions about my God
are now false. So, I make your religion wrong and may also kill you while
protecting my fears".
Examples of inequality:
- Gender based discrimination
- Ethnicity based discrimination
- Wealth based discrimination
- Profession
based discrimination.
o Medical doctors believing Naturopaths
are lesser.
o Naturopaths believing scientific doctors are
lesser.
o Engineers believing truck drivers are
lesser.
o Spiritual people thinking non-spiritual
people are lesser. E.g., believing being a healer is better than a corporate
employee.
§ If we did not have the power
of technology, healers would not be able to connect quickly to the masses via
the powerful internet technologies. Also spiritual people can come to the wrong conclusions based on the unhealed emotions within their unconscious mind, whereas Quantum Physics has made scientific deductions on the property of Quantum Particles, other dimensions, that we can benefit from. Any spiritual practice that is rigid, has a low shelf live, until we see 100% of our reality.
o Scientific
minded people believing spiritual people are making up stuff in their
head.
§ Scientific people can also come to the wrong conclusions out of their resistance to 'see' or 'feel' or 'hear' what is beyond their limited neuronetwork.
We are all a work in progress in learning more about our self, learning more
about God and learning more about Creation.
o Believing overweight people are lesser
than athletic people
o Believing younger people lack wisdom
when compared to older people.
§ Wisdom is based on Souls evolution and
not based on age. Some younger kids have more wisdom than the parents as their
soul is more advanced. If we believe in age based discrimination, we might squish
the growth of the advanced child.
o Believing older employees are lesser
than younger employees at work.
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I believe a good
fit to an organization has less to do with age and more to do with flexibility
to change, ability to constantly learn new skills and grow, acceptance of
different viewpoints, compassion for others mistakes, independent thinking, knowing when to lead and when to follow,
integrity and coming from the highest place of service with no hidden agenda.
How do we have equality?
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Do not make another wrong for having a
different view point.
o Everyone is in their own place in the
freeway of emotional healing and in releasing all the fears from the past
experiences. Everyone has a defense around them to a greater or lesser degree.
The thinner the wall of defense, the more healed one is. We need to allow
another to fall down and get back up as many times as is needed without
judgments.
Everyone
is taking outside information and filtering it by the beliefs in their
unconscious mind. Our unconscious is
changing information based on our limiting beliefs from past lifetimes. When we
have not seen all the ways messages are misinterpreted within our unconscious
mind, how can we claim we are right?
We
sometimes react to people based on past experiences. If we had a controlling
parent, we are constantly on hyper alert to see if others are controlling use.
This might cause us to quickly come to the conclusion we are being controlled
when another is simply giving guidance out of love and care.
We
may have a firm belief we need to be taken care of by others and a sense of
entitlement lies within. In which case, if someone is setting their boundaries
and denying us what we asked for, we can come to the wrong conclusions, like:
“They are not taking care of me, so they are selfish”
“They are bad person for having a different opinion than I do,
so I will not acknowledge them or be nice to them. I feel worthy when people agree with me”
If we
saw more than a small % of our outside reality we would know:
o The physical body does not exist and we
are pure energy
o We would see Unseen beings from the highest
energy living in different Star Systems.
o We can time travel to your various
lifetimes occurring in the parallel realities.
o We can heal our self on all levels of
your being. We would know the reason why we experienced painful childhood,
painful marriage, limiting health, lack of finance and know how to heal from it.
o We will know our shadows and fears
fully because our unconscious mind is no longer shielding you from it.
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Live in truth and be open to being
wrong
o When we live in truth we own our
limitations without defense. This leads to more compassion for the limitation
of others.
o Know that our truth evolves over time.
What we know as truth changes when we heal our emotions and we start ‘seeing’
the real truth earlier hidden within us. The more we communicate with our
unconscious mind and release fears, the more truth we see over time. Evolution
is a process, allow the humility to be wrong.
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Be the solution and not the problem
o Loving communication with children,
partners, co-workers and people who have hurt us.
o Help another in need. Do what you can, consistently.
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See God in another
o We can do this only when we have seen
God within us and we have healed emotionally to a great degree. When we can love the God within us, we know
the same Supreme Creator exists within others. Love for another is a natural
byproduct of the conscious realization of the Beloved Creator within us.
Self Love - Part I
Self Love - Part II
You Are Your Own Teacher
Love - The Path of True Happiness
My Path Towards Happiness
Live in truth each moment
Own the disowned shadows within the unconscious mind
Understand the purpose behind each limiting belief
Release the fears
Own others are reflecting our disowned aspect, namely, arrogance, fears of intimacy, greed, judgements...
When we own our creations, compassion for self is born
This leads to self love
And a greater love for the world
We stop blaming the world for our creations
Happiness is ours.
Anger has a message - Acceptance.
Anger is energy and a great teacher in our maturation process. Anger is an energy that was created at a past incident which did not get the closure that comes from acceptance.
Maybe we did not speak our truth. Maybe we were not heard. Maybe we were abused.
Until the past painful event is seen in its entirety, and the energy released, we will continue to hold anger within, and it will erupt in conversations and activities not related to the past event. The anger energy gets released unconsciously at the wrong place and wrong time, resulting in personal loss.
So how do we release the anger and come to the place of acceptance? Follow the 7 steps and allow the energy to move.
Step 1: Set the intention to yourself that you are ready to see the anger fully and heal from its message. You can affirm “I am open. I am ready. I am willing to release this anger and welcome peace. Thank you God for this”.
Step 2: Invite Archangel Michael and Archangel Raphael to witness you and heal you in the process of releasing the anger. Michael will give the fearlessness needed and Raphael will provide the necessary healing. Here is a prayer than may be used “Thank you Archangel Michael and Archangel Raphael for assisting me in releasing this anger and healing the past. So be it”.
Step 3: Feel the anger fully without harming the self or another. Verbalize anger and feel the emotions without judgments. Put the anger into words and share how it has impacted you and what your feelings about it is now. You can express your feelings in a quiet beach, mountains or the privacy of your home. Make sure you have your privacy; this is sacred and let it be between you and God. Ask for the cleansing tears to fall down which releases the blocks. Feel the emotions fully in a safe environment.
Step 4: Understand the lessons mastered by the original incident. There is a higher purpose to every painful incidents. It can be a closure of karmic completion or a lesson in patience, tolerance, acceptance, forgiveness or unconditional love. If you are advanced spiritually, you will quickly know the strengthening of character and the karmic resolution that came with the incident that caused anger. If you do not know why you faced the painful incident, ask God to give you clarity on why the situation took place.
Step 5: Put your hands on earth or in water (lake, ocean) and call forth all the anger energy and release it by saying “I Release”.
Step 6: Recharge yourself with nourishing energy from the earth by lying down on the soil or sitting with the back against a tree. Bless the earth and give back healing energy from your heart and nourish the planet so there is a balance in receiving and giving.
Step 7: Bless the person who caused the anger. Thank God for the lesson learned and welcome peace within.
This release can be done in one day or may span across days. Allow it to be what it is.
If recurring angry thoughts come up after the process, then continue educating your unconscious mind on the benefits of releasing this anger.
Here is a sample writing to release anger from the unconscious mind
With the dominant hand write a letter to the unconscious mind.
“Dear Unconscious mind,
I noticed you are not willing to release the anger from (describe the incident here).
I want you to know your unwillingness to move on is causing us to stay away from happiness and stay away from a place of higher creativity where manifestation of our dreams takes place easily. This stuck anger is slowing us down in our spiritual enlightenment. You holding on to a past event is telling the universe we have not yet mastered the lesson from the original event, which will result in us facing the same painful situation again and again until we are DONE.
You are not helping me move forward to the highest place of happiness that I desire.
Are you ready to release all the anger with this event so we can come to the place of Acceptance and move on to more fun things in life?”
With the less dominant hand, allow the unconscious mind to respond.
“yes”
My unconscious mind responded with a “yes”, since I was very thorough in explaining the benefits of releasing the anger. If the unconscious refuses to go along, ask the reason for the refusal and re-parent it. The unconscious mind knows it is there to serve us.
With the dominant hand thank the unconscious mind
“Thank you for releasing the anger associated to this event. I appreciate it very much. I love you very much and I will speak to you again. So be it.”
Then release the anger by tearing up the paper/burning it while saying “Thank you God for taking this back to the light so I don’t manifest it again in my life. So be it.”
Repeat process anytime the anger energy manifests within.
We are born as dependent creatures Looking to our parents for emotional and physical nurturing Dependent on their state of consciousness to feel good within. We grow up to be adults We strive hard to be recognized in the perfect job …still dependent on a job title and a performance review to feel good. We get adventurous and try a new skill Like bungee jumping off a cliff I must be fearless! …still dependent on the body tied to a cord and dropped from a cliff to feel good Then we get romantic Wow! The endorphins on that one can rock your socks off! We hug, kiss, have babies, a home, a 401K plan and we ‘think’ Soon we have new dependence We are dependent on the doom gloom news on TV We are dependent on foods that hurt our health We are dependent on drugs and cigarette We are dependent on a soccer game to give us the next high Then we wake up one day and wonder why we are not happy Why we are not fulfilled if nothing is happening Maybe we missed one key dependence… Depending on the truth within to release all fears Depending on the truth to take care of the unhealed part within us Depending on the truth to allow self love to bloom within Depending on the truth to reveal the Beloved Creator and all of Creation That day we stop and rest We are happy when nothing is happening We are happy when we heal our self We are happy when we help another in need We are happy when we live our truth And the searching for dependence stops. We are free
The False Dependence
Believing being an engineer or a healer makes us 'special'
we are 'secure in love', forgetting we love each other only to the best we can love
…still depended on another human, a person with fears, to feel good
Depending on the truth to allow power lying dormant within to wake up
We are happy making money grounded in truth
Loving My Ego
What do I say to my ego
When it has sabotaged my happiness
by judging myself and others?
What do I say to my ego
When it walks away from God
Believing it is protecting itself from an unknown fear?
My beloved ego,
How do I love you and heal you?
Maybe I can see you as the catalyst towards realizing what true happiness is
Maybe I can see you as my Beloved Creator, the source of all creations.
You are the fierce grace that gave me the unwavering focus to know God
You are the fierce grace that set me free to know love
You are the fierce grace that led me to walk along with God
I can now bow to you, own my lesson, and then set you free
I am sending you back to my Beloved Creator who created you for my God realization.
We journey through life gaining experiences Some experiences are enlightening and some are heart breaking Along the way our unconscious mind puts up protective barriers Thinking it is protecting us by not taking a risk Risk in the area of emotional intimacy in all relationships Risk in the area of expanding the brain by learning technology & healing arts Risk in the area of speaking our truth when faced with injustice Risk in the area of being who we are What have we gained by not taking the risk which gives a greater sense of self worth and love for our self? The unconscious does not know this But your higher self does So allow that powerful higher self to educate the unconscious mind To take a risk grounded in truth and discernment To forgive the self for all mistakes in the process of taking the risk If you have never ridden a bicycle before, do you expect to not fall down occasionally? Does that falling down mean you can never ride a bike? And ride it well? This logic is missing in the unconscious mind So take a risk Learn a new skill Try a new line of work which you enjoy Maybe something that helps the planet and mankind Reach for the stars And desire a million dollars as your income for 2010 All done in truth with no greed and fear Take a risk and tell your leaders what you want Take a risk and be vulnerable to your loved one Take a risk and walk away from someone who is draining your life force Take a risk and open your heart and love another in spite of their limitations
The Healing Risk
You will discover happiness along the way.So be it!
3 Steps to Release Fears
Excerpt: The unconscious mind is the layer between the conscious mind and the higher self. The unconscious mind carries fears and limiting beliefs from all the lifetimes. So our “truth” is as good as the ego mastery work we have done on our self, because our higher truth gets filtered by the unconscious mind before informing the conscious mind.
Enjoy the 3 steps to release fears!
Is it not time to stop war? Do we need to fight in the name of national security? Are we paying attention to every innocent and precious soul in the land attacked? Have'nt innocent people died in war? Do we really care? War needs to be fought with wisdom and love from an open heart Any action from fear will not lead to peace The leaders need to acknowledge they have not always acted in truth The leaders need to acknowledge they are students of life, mastering virtues through life challenges When we are students, open to being wrong, and willing to be taught by everyone Humanity will have more peace There is war in Wall street There is war at home There is war in our schools Have we paid attention to the real problems instead of the symptoms? We have lost our way from truth We have lost compassion for our fears, our unconscious negative shadows Hence we have no compassion for the same shadow reflected in others Maybe the same force, the same passion and the same devotion to war Can now be given to love Maybe we cannot have the right answer until we wake up the God within every man & woman Maybe if we clean up the garbage within us, our outside reality might change Don’t we have the same power as the Creator to create happiness and to create suffering? Suffering is a choice based on past karmic actions and current denial.
Is War The Right Answer?
A heart opened by our devotion to living in truth
Any action from ego will lead to more separation between humanity
The leaders need to acknowledge they are also humans trying to have mastery over their ego
There is war within us
So, is war always the right answer to every problem?
Something to ponder…
Here is an awakened child questioning our egioic actions. To me, that is the Beloved Creator in His fierce truth dancing in glory.
Live in Truth Own the hidden shadows Bless the self judgments Love the shadows revealed in all human interactions As the Beloved Creator is in that too! Release the shadows back to the Creator Live in Truth Allow the God within to awaken slowly Allow the ego to claim ownership of all revelations Allow the fear of unknown to exist Allow mistakes on the path as “The Path” Let every fear be brought into light Let the fierce Truth rip through the fears and reveal the suffering in the limited belief Allow the Heart Center to open as Truth resides fully Allow Divine Love to finally move within, revealing and healing all shadows. Discover joy in being a work in progress in the process of Ego Mastery Live in Truth Through Grace, one unplanned and mundane moment, the Beloved reveals Himself. All of Creation is laid bare to see All lifetimes occurring in the Now, like a stack of card, only in Now. The same flower looks different in different lifetimes, in different dimensions. Alive and radiant in one, dead in another How brilliant is creation! Every moment birthing and dying in the Now Every decision in Now affecting all lifetimes and all of Creation All forms in all planes of existence merge into the void to be birthed again An eternal dance of creation and collapsing My remembrance of the God I AM nourishes the Beloved Creator My awakening nourishes all of Creation My smile brings a smile in the face of all of Creation Father was waiting for me to remember Him Father was waiting for me to love Him so much, so I could see Him in my shadows Father was waiting for my Smile! Next day ego confusion My Ego fades into the void. A choice made each moment. To Live in Fear or Live in Truth Always a Beloved Student of the Beloved Creator Now what next? Live in Truth Love in Truth with no attachment to giving or receiving Act in Truth. Let the fierce Truth, grounded in Divine Mother’s love, rip through all social injustices, if truth is leading the ego The work done within, is now done outside Bring light to darkness in society, and free all aspects of our Great Self Fully knowing, that is the Beloved too! Fully knowing, that is part of me too. The Beloved and I, the eternal dance of lovers Seeking union through separation Brilliant!
Truth, Love and God
Maya shares her recent learning in faking the truth only to deepen her truth, by walking the path of fearlessness, deepening her self love and love for her Beloved Creator.
The Process of Awakening - II
I battle with it and question my truth
I am determined to continue to live in truth, no matter what is revealed
I stop and take a deep breath and claim in full knowing “God I Am”!
Always a warrior of Truth
Good Boundaries = Harmony; Poor Boundaries = Separation
Boundaries give us the space needed to discover who we “really are” without the intrusion of others beliefs and ideas of who we “should” be. Boundaries are the protective mechanism that gives us a sense of wellbeing and we allow the same freedom to another so there can be harmony in all relationships.
3 Steps To Happiness
Three simple steps towards happiness. Enjoy!
True Power
Power blooms within us when we live in truth and walk alone in our truth. Power is in the knowing we create our own reality by the power of our thoughts and emotions. Power is in our devotion to our Creator. Power is in our dedication to see the disowned shadows in our unconscious mind. Power is in the knowing we will walk away from anyone and any situation that is not in truth and does not honor us.
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Judgments – An opportunity to see our disowned self
A judgment on how another should act is very common that we forget to question the arrogance in the person issuing this criticism. When did we become experts on how another should be? What gives us that right to criticize another in the name of “good journalism” or “objective criticism”? We have forgotten to discuss the pressing issues in our lives and within the country; instead we all let loose our unresolved issues in the name of judgments! Here is food for thought – we judge what is disowned within us. This means, if we think someone is arrogant, dishonest, depressed, passive aggressive – guess what? We have that too! If we did not have it within us, another person’s behavior will not give us a charge causing a strong reaction.
I see lots of judgments in the presidential elections. The Democrats judge the Republicans and vice versa. Somewhere we have forgotten that good leadership is about seeing the issue objectively and resolving it without personal attacks. When did we lose all sense of decency and stoop so low? Do the media not have a responsibility to set good boundaries when people violate it? Have we given up hope on truth based news and respecting each other?
It is sad to watch this and harder to do nothing about it. I do judge others and it is a sad and humbling experience to catch myself and know I am criticizing what I refuse to accept within. I cannot run away from this truth, neither can you. We are all meant to learn and grow – not just to stagnate and be opinionated. Life gives us many opportunities to catch the way we delude ourselves and I request you to not miss it. It is grace when we catch ourselves straying off the path of truth. That is the calling towards contemplation and correction of self.
The wonderful gift is the lightheartedness we feel with accepting our disowned shadows. Ironically the more we own our shadows the less we are moved to judge, until one day, our senses are so fine tuned that we catch the judgment even before we act on it! That is our doorway towards a more fulfilling life!
Faith in Self & Faith in God
Faith in self is born when we repeatedly face great challenges with grace. Faith in self is born when we can walk alone in our truth without the neediness for acceptance.
Faith in God is our own personal discovery. We cannot take the words of our parents, priest or the scriptures since that is another person's experience of God. Our experience of the Creator is very personal and has to be directly experienced by us. Only then will we have the unshakable faith that there is a greater lesson in the midst of great loss and all will be well once that lesson has been learned.
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The Power of Illusion
The Power of Illusion allows us to discover we have the same creative power as the Creator. Illusion was created so man may know he is God. Illusion is not a bad thing! Read on and this point will become clear!
We create illusion through the power of our thoughts and emotions. If we have a thought with a positive emotion such as love, we create wonders. On the contrary, if we have a negative thought with the emotion of fear, we create pain and suffering.
Illusion allows us the varied experience of light and dark so we can master all experiences, learn powerful lessons and finally start enjoying our creations and manifesting the life we desire from a place of truth and not greed. We start enjoying illusion only when we have connected to the underlying truth in every thought and action.
Here are 4 scenarios illustrating how we create our reality through our thoughts and emotions.
Reference is made to chapter 3 of the book The Power of Illusion on revealing the underlying fears and reprogramming/reparenting the unconsicous mind.
e.g.1 – I give a lot and don’t get much in return. Why?
If I have a thought that everyone takes from me and gives me nothing in return; I will create it. I will manifest people who discard my needs and take until I am physically and emotionally drained. Remember these beliefs might have been created in past lifetimes.
Refer to chapter 3 of The Power of Illusion and
understand the reasons why the unconscious mind is creating this energy draining relationships. Then educate the unconscious mind by letting it know you now desire balance in giving and receiving. Let it know you love yourself to walk away from anyone and any situation that no longer honors you. Release the fears that can surface to your conscious mind as you start walking the path towards self love.
e.g.2 – I want 100K in addition to my salary
I desire 100K and I am fully committed to releasing all my greed and my fears of having this money, knowing God is in charge and I will receive the money in God’s time and not my time.
I will receive this money since unwavering focus, love and devotion are motivating my actions every day. In addition, I have also have mastered my lessons in greed and know my happiness and fulfillment comes from living in truth and discovering my self in love. I am not longer misled thinking material world is what makes me a ‘worthy’ person.
While manifesting financial abundance ensure you have no greed and your values are based on truth and not the material by reprogramming the unconscious mind(see chapter 3 of The Power of Illusion). As my teacher Maya as shared, Money was created to help us learn about integrity and exchange. If we do not have integrity, we will get the opportunity to learn a lesson.
e.g.3 – I want to be in truth every moment of living
If I desire truth in my every action and have the intention I no longer wish to be in denial of my shadows or fears, I will manifest opportunities where I get to see my shadows so I can release it. This is because I have now given permission to my unconscious mind to recognize all shadows that I was in denial earlier.
e.g.4 - Manifesting the partner who is your equal
You are a woman who desires a man who is your equal emotionally and spiritually and devoted to truth every moment of his life. However, your belief system in your unconscious mind is:
- Men do not see women as equal
- Men prefer sex over to intimacy
- Men cheat on their partners and it is ‘harmless’
- Men are threatened by a woman in her power
These beliefs will not allow you to manifest the man who is your equal and one who honors you and truth. Until the beliefs are seen, released and new positive beliefs reprogrammed, you will not manifest a suitable mate, because you will not recignize him or be attracted to him even if he is standing in front of you. You are attracted to what you already know, which is the limiting beliefs in your unconscious mind.
As my beloved teacher Maya says, “What is life if not to desire and manifest your desires”. So desire all you want in truth, without any fear, fully knowing God is in charge.
Illusion encompasses both beauty and darkness
If we refuse to live in truth as we create our reality thorugh the power of illusion, and if we continue being seduced by the material and pleasurable; the same illusion can destroy you. Illusion has the ability to cause tremendous loss if we refuse to see the underlying truth in each of our material creations.
e.g.1 – Misplaced Values
If your value system is misplaced and you believe you are a better person because of your house, income, job title and money in the bank and refuse to see the truth in pursuit of your material; you will lose your happiness and peace and the material will cease to give joy. The illusion was in their limiting belief to become more powerful and have a good self esteem though acquiring things in greed. Everyone gets many wake-up calls in one life and it continues in subsequent lifetimes until you are shaken out of your inertia and start seeing the lies within to embrace more truth.
No one is exempt from learning what is true. Enjoy the material world that is why it is here; however, our true self esteem comes from our devotion to truth, service, compassion, and love for our imperfections and those of others.
e.g. 2 – Not seeing another as an equal
If I believe being in a leadership role in Corporate America allows me to treat my subordinates as lesser than me, I will create the same inequality where another sees me as lesser. This inequality can happen in your relationship or at work - everything is balanced so we may learn from it and move on, wiser than before.
Beauty within Illusion
The beauty within illusion is truly enjoyed when we live in truth and fully know our true powerful self comes from living in truth, discovering deep love for self and others, service and devotion.
The beautiful side of illusion allows us to have a separate experience as a human being even though we are all part of the same Creator. We all get to do our own unique creation by experimenting in light and darkness so we have a full experience of the power within the creator – to create and destroy.
We get to have the joy of creating, enjoy beautiful clothes, romance, sex and laughter because of our uniqueness in spite of being part of the One mind.
When we have mastered all the lessons and have fully discovered who we are, we get to go back to the Creator and say “That was a blast! I enjoyed my creations and got to discover I have your power to create and destroy!”
The Power of Illusion helps us discover we have the power of the Creator within us all the time. We create and destroy based on our thoughts and emotions, every moment.
Greed
Greed is caused by:
- our value system being misplaced. We desire to build a powerful sense of self through acquiring things. A big house, appearance, job title and money in the bank are valued more than truth, compassion, generosity and forgiveness. This is a phony self and will crumble at the first recession, at a relationship break, a failure at work or a health challenge. We will constantly be searching for the next 'high' to make us feel worthy if our value system is misplaced. The true powerful self is created when we have more truth than lies in our self. When we have this truth, the material is easily given to us since God does not hold back as we have mastered our lessons in living in truth.
- fear of scarcity. We fear it will all run out, so we amass great deal of food, shoes, homes, money and toys. We do not trust that God will provide for our needs. When our needs are not provided for, this means we have a lesson we have not yet learned. That's all, nothing more! He is waiting for us to discover our power, which is His power that he left in us. There is no bias in the Creator's eyes as we are all created equal. I did not have much for the first 30 years of my life as my core life lesson was in finding my own power amidst great challenges. I mastered it and I found truth, love and devotion. Once we live in truth and ask God in total love and devotion without greed or fear, your desires will manifest. My life is an example of being 100% heard by the Creator. I came to this place though truthful self work in seeing all my arrogance, control, jealousy, pride, rage and every negative shadow in deepest humility. God was waiting for me to live in truth before he showered me with abundance of devotion, service, compassion, power and love. I am now discovering I can have all that I desire as long as I am living in truth and release my fears daily.
Communication
This is the means for the soul to develop. We bounce our current state of evolution against another, we get a response from them and we decide if we want to react to it by standing up to our false beliefs or standing up in truth.
When we have fear of intimacy we encounter communication issues because we are often engaged in lashing out in anger or waging a silent war. Somewhere along the way we forget to have an open hearted conversation with full permission to be wrong and to be open to learn from everyone. The secret to ending war lies in these words. When we are open to being wrong we are not defensive and listen clearly without any filters set by our minds. This gives us the humility to recognize a profound teaching from any inanimate object and not just from enlightened teachers.
How do you stand up for yourself when you have never done it before? With love in your heart, observe what happened to make you feel not heard in a relationship. Evaluate if this is something that is core to your emotional wellbeing. If it is important, communicate to the person what you have experienced, what you will no longer support and what your expectations are. Do this with love and thank the person for being your teacher in helping you to understand yourself better and to stand up to your truth. If the person does not honor your wishes, break the relationship fully, which will give the other time to think. Be open to the person coming back to you or not wanting to be with you again. When anxieties arise, do not dismay. Hold on to the angels, do your daily homework of unconscious dumping and hug yourself and repeat many times, “I love you and I bless you”. You are worthy of someone who truly honors you. Living a lie for fear of loneliness is a sure recipe for misery, which gets aggravated over time. Communication is about honoring the other person’s thoughts and providing the space for another to express them freely without fear. It is about coming from a heart open place in dealing with conflicts. When differences in opinions arise, we can let go of our ideas and go with another person’s belief. It is not about being right; it is about being in the knowing. This does not mean we become a doormat. When we come from a heart open place, we will know when to walk away and when to stay. This knowledge will not be available when caught in a power struggle. When we relinquish all control, it becomes very easy to move with the flow. A dance takes place in silence and tremendous healing happens to those who interact with one who is grounded in the knowing of what is real.
The Process of Awakening
Awakening is the process where self deceptions are revealed so truth can reside fully. Awakening is the process wherein the Divine Mother consciousness in each and every man and women wakes up from a deep sleep and remembers to have union back to the Father, the source that created everything. Awakening is when the body and mind is cleaned up so we can start embracing the love present within us.
The process of awakening is not easy. It is a process that shakes up all your limiting beliefs. The realization of being wrong about your core beliefs requires great humility. If you can yearn for truth more than a pretty illusion, this awakening process will take you to the heights of its glory. Along the way we’ll be asked to drop our concepts about the world, spirituality, religion and finally our concepts about God. This is done so you can finally empty your cup for truth to be revealed. Your truth may be very different from another since we are all in different stages in our realization.
The process of awakening can cause a deep sadness and depression as untruth is revealed. All the past unresolved hurt, this lifetime and others, gets to be seen in the compassion of your heart and grieved. It gets to be held by the Divine Mother awakening within you. All instances of competitiveness, greed, rage, arrogance, jealousy, pride and all forms of egoistical actions get to be seen in the light of truth. The compassion of the Divine Mother within can heal all parts of us that is broken. We will be led to spiritual teachers and healers to heal the broken parts within. We may resist the teachers and healers due to our inherent lack of trust in goodness, however, trust in the Divine Mother within to know how to heal us. The ego or the limiting beliefs get to surrender to this wisdom awakening within us. This is when the unconscious mind with all its fears and self sabotaging thoughts get to rest knowing truth is in charge.
Every one on earth will go through this process of awakening. The current lifetime is a great one for all masters to remember who they are and to ascend. Be open to your soul leading your path. Remove all beliefs on who can teach you. Be open to learning from many teachers. Releasing suffering and pain is very fast when you are open to being teachable by anyone God chooses to teach you. Your Divine Mother knows the way and you can delay your teaching and get stuck if you have a resistance to a teacher or teaching.
It is deep cleanup time of earth right now. The lack of integrity in our leaders, stock market and banking systems is an outward reflection of the same cleanup occurring within. Do not procrastinate doing your self work or it is easy to get stuck in delusion and suffering. The cleanup time right now has the potential for your body to manifest illness if you are in denial with what your soul knows to be true. If you feel you are not competitive or arrogant and your soul knows otherwise, you can turn it inwards and hurt your body.
Have the courage to break your comfort zone and take a leap into the unknown. Attend as many spiritual programs by many teachers and allow yourself to remember. You will learn discernment and start the process of trust only if you stretch yourself out of your comfort zone. In every teaching, take what is true for you and reject the rest. Only through walking through your fears can the process of awakening shift you to a higher place. Take a leap of faith and take action. The time is now.
Forgive And Let Go
We cannot start the process of forgiveness until we have fully embraced the loss and are in the process of grieving. The inner child who was hurt needs to be acknowledged and parented by the conscious mind. The unconscious mind can recreate energy draining relationships at home and workplace until the past experience is understood, acceptance of the lessons learned, and the pain released.
If the process of loss and grief has been handled well, the following 2 scripts will help you forgive another and let go of the past.
Step 1. Release the Past : Reprogramming our Unconscious Mind/Inner Child to let go of the past.
Step 2. Forgiveness : Write a letter to the Unconscious Mind of the person who caused the hurt.
note: The letter is not given to the person, however simply writing to the unconscious mind will help them get the contents as we are all part of One mind.
Step 1. Release the Past
Write to your unconscious mind with your dominant hand and allow the unconscious mind/inner child to respond through the non-dominant hand.
"Dear Inner Child,
May I talk to you?"
(Switch pens to the other hand and allow the inner child to respond through the non-dominant hand. Feel free to edit the script to reflect what is rue for you.)
"Yes"
(Write with your dominant hand and reparent ths Unconscious Mind)
"We have experienced loss of power in our life where our needs were not heard by the one we trusted, our parents. We were violated and abused mentally and physically. We were also not seen as equal in our relationship through marriage. We have suffered tremendous loss of self esteem, disowned/abused our sexuality, and had to work very hard at being who we are now. I embrace you and I bow to the being you are – it was not easy. It is time to let this go. This is impacting our daily choices and causing us to relive the grief over and over. It is time we embrace that event took place for our learning, which will be revealed more and more from this day on. We want happiness and a future untainted by the past. We want to manifest love, abundance, people we can trust and a deeper connection to the Creator. The universe is ready to provide abundance and fulfill our desires when you are ready to let go of the past. This does not mean we need to accept what happened as being OK, it also does not mean we owe any explanation to the people involved. We simply move on to a brighter future. Are you ready to embrace the past and let it go?"
(let the inner child respond through the non-dominant hand)
"Yes" ***
(switch back to the conscious mind using the dominant hand and educate the unconscious mind further and let it know the conscious mind is in charge and not the unconscious mind)
"Thank you dear one. Here are the lessons we have learned through this challenge.
· We have the ability to stand up and speak our truth in a non judgmental manner.
· We have the ability to walk away from anyone or any situation that does not honor us. We are embracing fearlessness.
· We are devoted to living in truth and seeing all the illusion/shadows within us that is preventing happiness and manifesting our desires. We are embracing our power through our integrity.
· We are compassionate towards others who are struggling with their shadows.
· We have the ability to meet life’s challenges knowing there is learning for us and we can master it with the help of God and our teachers.
Do you now agree with me the lessons learned are indeed valuable and we can be grateful for it?"
(let the inner child respond through the non-dominant hand)
"Yes" ***
Destroy the paper (Tear it or burn it) while saying “Thank you God for taking these fears back to the light so I do not manifest it again in my life. So Be It!”
*** if the inner child says “No”, re-parent the inner child with dominant hand until it gives a “Yes”. You can ask the inner child “What can I do to help you release the grief and move on? It is my job to take care of you and not the person who hurt us.” The inner child will give some suggestions, and as long as it is reasonable, do it.
Step 2. Forgiveness : Write a letter with your dominant hand to the Unconscious Mind of the person who caused the hurt.
"Dear mom/dad/ (whoever caused a tremendous amount of hurt that impacted your life)
We have never had closure on what happened in the past.
I would like to share my suffering as a result of the action you took.
Here is how I have suffered by your action:
1.I could not have intimacy with anyone, as a result relationships were not fulfilling.
2.I could not embrace my sexuality and enjoy sex without inhibitions.
3.I could not be a leader in the work force as I did not have the confidence.
4.I could not have good boundaries as a result I have been pushed around, taken advantage of and emotionally drained by many people I interact with.
5.I could not give my child the abundance of love and fully accept his imperfections. I took my anger out on him, like you did to me.
6.I could never stand up for what I believed in and live in truth.
These are indeed grave challenges and a lot for a person to bear in a lifetime. I however, am determined to rebuild my life and find back my power and my love for myself and others. I have decided to not let the past stop me. I forgive you fully knowing you did not have the emotional maturity or spiritual connection to God to help heal your wounds.
I bless you and I wish you a life where you discover truth and love, the way I am discovering mine. So Be It!"
Last step
Tear the letter and give it to the Creator with a prayer “Father please take this back from me to the light so I do not manifest it again in my life”.
Moving On
There are times of cataclysmic changes within you and when that happens you will need to be prepared to have a lot of fear and uncertainty arise. This is a natural reaction because your foundation is being uprooted and shaken. Sometimes a lot of energy is needed for change to take place. When that happens, hold on to your center, your angels and your God to help you get through this upheaval. Do not hold on to any guilt or blame when the old falls away from you. At some higher level you wanted this change for your highest learning. At the same time others who are affected by this change are also learning lessons because they have asked for this learning to set themselves free. It is not always one way. Sometimes you need to walk alone to discover who you are. Are you ready to do so? Are you ready to throw away all your comforts and stand alone with God? Are you ready to see what He is showing you? Are you ready to learn from what She wants you to see? Are you ready to drop an old way of thinking and acting and move to a truer existence? The path is not easy. It is strewn with points of darkness and you need to hold on to yourself to fully realize what you are and what you are not.
When you are lost, pray. Ask for clarity, so you may see through the maze of emotions engulfing you at the moment of shift. Remember you are not created to be a constant giver or a constant taker all your life. At some point all will have to come to a stop. You will make a change toward a mutually nurturing relationship with all. At that point, your friends and family may drop away. You will go through a time of transition where a shift will take place for something more solid to emerge. Do you have the patience to wait for the mud to settle down and the water to become clear? Walk alone in this new path and discover for yourself. Trust in whatever is brought forth in each moment. Maybe an old relationship becomes more fulfilling than before or maybe it will completely fall away. Love the people involved. Surround them with white light so they may also heal through this process and see the truth. Do not blame anyone or be angry. They played a role that you wanted them to play so that you would realize it is no longer working for you. When there is love, everything will set itself right.
I was going through a huge learning cycle when the above was channeled. It was of a tremendous help as it soothed my soul. I was lost. I realized all my friendships until then were formed out of neediness where I was playing the role of a giver, so that I would be seen as a ‘spiritual’, ‘loving’ and ‘good’ person. In the retreat with my divine teacher, Goddess Maya, my unconscious shadows were brought to light. I saw my neediness, and as it was being released from me, every relationship was seen to be false. I now want a mutually nourishing relationship where we come together out of joy and not out of lack.
Truth
(channeled teachings from ascended masters Frodham)
This is a word that has caused a lot of confusion in your minds. The truth is one that sets you free from holding on to your beliefs, ideas and opinions about anything and anyone. The truth is the vehicle through which the divine moves through you. It is clear and concise in its communication, and you will never be in doubt of its message, as long as you are centered and completely in line with this movement inside you. The way to be in alignment is to stop questioning your inner guidance. Even when you make a mistake, its okay, everything is bringing greater clarity to all light workers. Everyone has access to this truth; even the one caught in darkness. They are also listening to a movement within themselves when not blocked by fear. You chose to ignore the message since you did not want to give up what you ‘thought’ precious, like your false values and beliefs! You need to know that once something is written in stone it is no longer in the flow of life. A truth at one point may change at another point in time. You may be asked to create at one point and rest at another. There is no book written on the truth as it is not a constant. However, the following guidelines will help you stay open to receiving the truth:
1. Utmost honesty with self at all times, even at the cost of losing what you hold as valuable.
2. Never to ever give in to baser instincts for personal gain. Even if you do, remember no one is judging you.
3. Utmost awareness of every movement inside and outside of you without judgment. Awareness opens your heart center to receive messages of greater subtlety.
4. Measure your progress by the amount of peace in your life.
5. As you become more and more aware, your shadows will be revealed to you – own them and release them. Own the pain it has caused you and release it back to the source.
6. Be a child at all times – open and innocent to the glory around you.
7. Always be a student and realize that you know nothing. When you have this attitude the resistance within you will fall away and the simplest and most profound teachings will be made visible to you every waking moment. This is how the divine talks to you. It is not always the big bang catastrophic incident that raises your awareness.
8. When in doubt about a teaching, let it go completely from yourself into the light. Release it and ask the Father to bring more clarity and openness. If there is truth in the teaching it will be given back to you in a way you will know for sure. Sometimes, we deny the truth, which is ok. Denial is giving you time to recuperate from past hurts. When you are ready, you will hear it. Pray for readiness and all fears to be removed from you knowing you are in divine hands.
9. The movement of truth is clearest in its reception when your body is clear of toxins, your intestines are clear and you are breathing deep into your lower abdomen so all the cells receive precious oxygen. Eliminate food which does not suit you.
10. Surrender to life every moment. Surrender to the force that is in you, outside of you and beyond your mind as you know of it. Surrender to God.
The Way to Live When You Don’t Know How
You come to a point in your spiritual evolution where you simply get in the divine flow and no longer create your own confused path. At that point, you are not given a roadmap ahead of time, you simply are shown each moment what to do. The control freak in you will have a lot of fun over this one! Fortunately, you will reach this place when that part of you has also surrendered. If there are any remnants of control, it may not have any power to act out. What a gift!
You wake up and start moving from inside, a knowing indicated by body sensations and thoughts which have no attachment to anything. That’s when you know you are not in your conditioned belief system. Call upon the archangels to cleanse all lower energies so that you are feeling only your feelings and not that of others. Remember the more you are connected to the source, the more connected you become to all and the more sensitive you are to all energies around you. Boundaries are important to prevent your energy from being drained and to have clarity of thought.
The way back to the light is through the exact same way you moved out of it in the first place - through your fears, false beliefs and experiencing the pain you caused others. Dying before the physical death is not romantic as all spiritual books make it out to be. We still do it, or it is done onto us, in spite of us, out of sheer grace – so we may finally be free.
Some of my days were lost in the darkness of my despair as nothing is known anymore. My old self confidence seemed to have died as I was dying. All my past accolades in my job in Corporate America have faded and I see the falseness in it all. How do I live not able to sell my talents, not knowing what I am right now? Only life will have to show it to me. I follow the angel’s advice where a thought is seen for its falseness before it is believed and try to stop its escalation right there. The journey was lonely and I wondered if it could get any lonelier. I wondered if I could I lose my faith in God.
I later channeled this section, which helped me rest in peace.
When the sun rises it also sets – that’s the law of things. Why do you hold on to one event in desperation and reject another? The cycle is what makes the sunrise and sunset breathtaking. You are caught viewing life with blinders on. You choose one experience and reject the rest. This preference is causing the pain in your heart. Yes, the side you are rejecting does cause pain – it is so you will transform and see the truth. You are missing the whole picture when you are focused on a minute part. How can you make decisions when you don’t have total information at hand? You have a certain preference for food, partners, clothes, job and spiritual teachers – everything viewed with bias will only be a partial experience of the fullness. You own an experience when you have fully experienced it and have seen all sides of the coin. Only then is wisdom gained. This life is a journey for you to experience all that you can, so you may learn and know what makes you really happy. It is not the happiness that comes and goes, but the kind that stays on forever because you now see the joy in everything. Pain and pleasure are held in equanimity without discrimination.
The journey is painful and you will have moments of utter despair. That is when you are taught to learn that you do not hold it all in your hands. You learn to surrender. You hold on to your faith. You bring God and Angels into the picture so your load is shared and you gently walk through the thorns in your path until they are all removed by your divine grace. You think too much and spoil the fun of the moment. Love is a word least understood by mankind. Love is not conditional. It is not because of something you perceive as a feeling and emotion. Love existed even before ‘you’ existed. Before your thoughts, beliefs and personality existed. These thoughts, beliefs and personality covered the love and tainted it to be a form of barter system – you give me this and I will give you a few morsels of my love. What nonsense! This love is experienced when it is allowed to come forth and bloom in you without any of your input. It is already there just waiting to express itself. It dawns like the first sunrise after a storm when you have cleansed out all your shadows and have owned your life as being your creation entirely. You are divine. How can it be otherwise? Live and watch that love dawn inside you. It will surprise you completely when you observe yourself doing the most uncharacteristic things as this love moves. You be this love in action once it has graced you with its presence. That is God taking house in you when your old self is dying.
Living through Difficult Times
The art of forgiving is to see another as yourself. This comes with knowing who you are and accepting yourself. Accept your weakness as your divine imperfections. You deny the imperfections in yourself hence you see the same reflected in another and do not forgive. When the heart is opening, there are times of great distress and sadness as emotions are being cleared out of your system. There is a period of doubt and lack of faith. Just extend your hand to me and walk knowing I am with you. It is difficult to hold to faith when things are going downhill. Don’t try to understand anything at this time of change. Just walk holding my hand. I am with you always. You are allowed to make mistakes and learn. You are not expected to see a shadow and immediately not have it any more in your system. A shadow took awhile to get into your system, respect its depth and its emotions. Erase the shadow a little at a time knowing every small step counts.
You are in a hurry to cleanse yourself thinking it is going to be the end of challenges. We all dislike events that push us further. However, putting a block and preventing challenges is like saying “I don’t want to learn anymore”. You will constantly learn even when you are no longer in this human body. Learning and growing is part of the infinite enjoyment. You cannot bypass this precious learning. Your creative power within you needs this growing so it can express itself in many different ways. Learn to let go when things are no longer working. Don’t hold on to relationships which do not serve you anymore. There is no judgment anywhere. You do not need to have guilt. Everything done in love cannot be wrong. Lovingly let go of a situation or person that is no longer in sync with your growth. You do not want anyone to stagnate or pull you down.
The angels are guiding you. Ask for their help and you will be released from your pain. Ask them to guide you and to heal you. Mankind was never left alone to fend for itself. You need to ask for help and it will be given. The way out of sadness and depression is to finally see something is not helping you at all. To see it is not serving your higher purpose. Hold it in love and let it go. See it has served a purpose in you, by giving you some time to rest until you are getting ready to walk. You need to get up and walk one day. It is important that you dust yourself and get up – in your own time.
Use divine help when you get caught in the stories of your depression. Know these stories were created by you and the events corresponding to the stories also had you for its author. Others played a role in your story to release you from this pain. There is no where to go and no one to blame when you finally see you are creating your reality. You are creating the romance from not coming to your life and you are creating the unhealthy energy draining relationship in your life. You do not want to let go since then you are truly alone - alone to walk with God. It is scary when you realize this truth. You wanted the painful energy cord connected to various people to feed your dysfunction. You wanted this energy draining experience so you do not have to be alone with God. You are scared of something which is your very essence. Standing alone means you get rid of all the cords which connect you to people and things which no longer truly serve you. Then trust in the higher power to walk with you alone. You will never be let go unless you want to experience that letting go and standing alone. The sense of being scared is generated by your ego which thinks it is going to die. This is the self which needs to die so the new Self can be born. Rebirths are not easy and know you are not alone. You do not know of the gifts that await you as you discover the kingdom within you. You are free, so free that all your possessions can be robbed from you and you will smile in joy knowing all is well. All is a play in this illusionary dream. It is all so the infinite can dance in abandonment. It is for you to know your own power and be humble at that which gazes through you, at you.
Faith
http://www.bayareametaphysics.com/profiles/blog/show?id=863719%3ABlogPost%3A13208
Showing Up To Life
http://www.bayareametaphysics.com/profiles/blog/show?id=863719%3ABlogPost%3A14507
Wake Up! http://humanityhealing.ning.com/profiles/blog/show?id=1388889%3ABlogPost%3A38386
Creation and Destruction
There is an expansion when your needs are met. This expansion needs to be kept open for the flow to be in any direction that life chooses it to be. Often, we contract in fear of losing what we got, which is a sure way to lose it. This is fear of scarcity. We feel we do not deserve what we have and fear it will be taken away. That is what causes possessiveness and control. Let go. Open you arms with abandon and give it the freedom to come to you or find another home. When you can do this, you are allowing yourself to have the power to be what you are and ask for what you need without anger or suppression. You are so open that you lovingly say “I want to be loved like the divine Goddess I am and I will love you like the divine God that you are”. Can you really feel the energy behind these powerful words? Can you feel the transformative force when you see another in completeness of their form? This force is the unlimited power of creation and destruction.
We create and destroy every day. A breath is created and it is destroyed. A thought is created and it is destroyed. With each creation and destruction, if there is any kind of holding on to it, you have lost it. You have missed the magic that just happened. A birth and death in complete freedom, which is an expression of the divine. You hold on to a birth and prevent it from dying, which is the root cause of all your problems. That is the home ground of illusion, Maya - The 4 letters that have created Jesus, Hitler and you.
If you want to experience Jesus, you will, and if you chose to experience Hitler, you did. It was your divine choice. This is a hard one for many to accept that you script your life as it is. It takes tremendous courage to see it. Until you are ready to see the magnitude of it, you will continue to blame fate and people for your misery.
One day the veil will slip off and you will see. Every side that you turn you will see everything that is inside you which is causing each moment. You will then come to your knees and surrender. You will no longer be angry at your own creation. You will know that failure is your doorway to freedom. When you wake up in the morning, you do not think what a lousy human being you are. It is the mask you put on immediately after waking because you wanted it. You wanted to feel your own rejection of yourself. You wanted to feel you have not succeeded in life. You wanted to feel nothing you do will ever lead you to happiness.
What have you gained by these thoughts and feelings? A sense of right that your beliefs were true? This is a feeling of great power in spite of the situation robbing you of your personal power. There is an underlying anger to it which fuels it and it feels good to believe you were always right. And guess what! You will be proven to be right over and over because you are co-creating this again and again. You need to sit and ask yourself if you truly want to change. This means, you will no longer be in a place having predetermined conclusions in your head. You will now be open to infinite possibilities. Can you do that? Can you walk alone finally with your arms wide open, allowing everything?
